I’m
extremely task oriented. Right down to creating nice, neat little
checkboxes on my myriad of lists. Yup, that’s me. It serves me well
for the most part, keeping the last couple of inter-state moves organized for
one. Checking the box feels like winning to me and provides a sense of
satisfaction that I’ve accomplished something.
Trying
to balance the “to do’s” with other more “warm and fuzzies” is a constant
challenge I often struggle with. It’s not that I don’t want the warm and
fuzzies, but the checkbox is enticing. It begs to be drawn neatly, only
to be checked off with a bold checkmark. Some warm and fuzzies from this past weekend...
Mom
and Kenny came to visit and stay the night on Friday, so we jumped into my car
and headed to dinner.
After
a nice dinner, we were ready to show them our new house, until this happened –
Apparently,
I should have had “Change original car battery” on my to do list!
Lucky for us, a nice family pulled into the restaurant lot and, before heading
in for their dinner, tried to help us via jumper cables. Also lucky for
us, we have AAA, so when their jump didn’t work, AAA took care of the
rest. With so much bad behavior in the world, it’s reassuring when
strangers try to help strangers and AAA goes out of their way to get you a new
battery and get you on your way. Even without the neat checkbox.
Later
on in the weekend, Scott and I were returning from working on the new house
when we were distracted by the sky. We were tired from the day, but oh
that sky! We chased down the sunset, knowing it would be a brilliant one.
It was worth the chase and the time spent –
Warm
and fuzzy isn’t supposed to fit neatly in a check box, so I will continue to
balance my need to “check the box” with continuing to capture and live
in these moments. Moments much more beautiful than a check box!